It’s not that our teens were not interested in dates beyond a friendship, but we had talked through the few pros and the many cons of exclusive dating enough that they felt changing the relationship from friendship to romance might ruin the friendship.
Our teenagers would all say that their prom dates were a lot of fun. Many of the parents were involved with before-dance dinners, chaperoning the dance, and hosting after-dance activities at homes or rented facilities.
Bill smiled and probed: “You know, your mom and I have been talking about you and all those boys who call on the phone.” Julie squirmed uncomfortably in her seat. Instead, we are encouraging our girls who are still home to focus on the friendship side of their relationships with boys.
Realizing now where this conversation was headed, she rolled her eyes. When our girls do spend time with a boy, it’s in a group, not one on one.
He smiled as he thought about all those after-school trips over the last few years: dance classes, piano practices, the unending cycle of softball games and tournaments.
He glanced at her in the seat next to him and thought, .
Eventually the character will become a part of you so make it the guy you really want to be.
I guarantee after completing the course and worksheets that you’ll start seeing real change in the way women perceive you!Imagine an alter ego (similar to Brad Pitt’s character in Fight Club) where you are super confident and not afraid of anything. I want you to name this alter ego and really use it during your dating journey.An alter ego that never worries about what girls think. Now tell the story of what that alter ego would do in a similar situation. Anytime you feel less than 100% confident I want you to step into the role of your alter ego. A lot of my clients have recently asked me: “how to be confident while dating.” This is usually after a conversation of them telling me they can’t figure out how to be authentic while dating. You can do this right when you arrive home, after the date is complete. It’s important to identify the exact moment when your feelings changed so you can tweak your approach moving forward. So I’ve come up with 2 steps you can take to be more authentic on your dates: If you feel inauthentic, spend some time writing down exactly when you felt that way.