He should be trying to make things more interesting.Coming over last minute and late at night isn’t romantic.If you find yourself waiting days for a reply or weeks for him to even mention getting together again because he’s “so busy,” keep your options open and don’t wait around for Mr. If he can’t step up to the occasion, neither should you. Save your energy for someone who wants to actually get to know you completely, and not just who you are in the bedroom. Dating is really tough and it’s not going to get easier anytime soon, so it’s up to you to weed out the jerks, the weak and the lazy ass guys before you get caught up in another disaster.As hard as it might seem at times, you do deserve to have someone who actually treats you with complete kindness and respect and is excited about dating you in a real way, so keep working towards that by dodging the jerk bullets as quickly as you can.You have better stuff to do than to date someone who’s lazy.
You deserve someone who actually makes a real effort so if he’s not dating you properly, don’t date him at all.
Particularly if we are hoping to build an actual relationship with this person.
Many inquiries I get from women involve their confusion about whether or not the man they are seeing is serious about them.
You’re not a late night option and you’re certainly not a 24-hour drive-thru pick-up window. The so-called “busy” excuse that so many guys feed women is total BS.
Let his call hit your voicemail and never return the message. If a guy wants to see you, talk to you and check in with you to see how your day is going, he’ll find the time no matter what the case may be if he’s truly into you. It’s getting nauseating the way some guys push sex as the main priority of spending time with you so if you’re dating a guy who’s pushy in the physicality department and you’re looking for something more meaningful, stop giving him the time of day.