Advice for dating older man

Older guys typically drive those cars – they have had more time to experience the joys of life. This does not mean that it is any less exciting – they may narrate fascinating tales about their travels or teach you a thing or two about buying homes, politics, getting your finances in order, achieving your dreams and so on.

Surely, all this beats ranting about how bad Nicki Minaj is!

Keep age references to a minimum – you both have agreed to dating and there is no point in nagging him about his age, especially since it is not something that he can control. They are fed up of blowing cash on petty, shallow women. Most other girls make him spend mindlessly on filet mignon and champagne.

Hence, they really tend to appreciate a woman who has a homely, non-materialistic side. So a girl who cooks for him (at least once in a while) is a welcome change.

Do you need help setting up automatic bill pay or your 401(k)?

Sure, every relationship is unique and comes with its own set of challenges.

Still, he will respect you more if he cannot have you easily. Don’t rely on him too much to pay for your clothes and food.

Take him out once in a while – even if it is not to a very fancy bar.

Hence, it might be tempting to move in with him – DON’T! Don’t be too eager to start living with him – even if he drives a very nice car and has a Jacuzzi and fully stocked bar.

I know it’s hard – the Jacuzzi makes it very difficult to not move in with him at the first opportunity.

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